My Father In Law Frank

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For my Father In Law, Frank Honer

Love Always, Liz Also 

Fave Pics of Frank:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1GA2YeubjieaYf62C8qIZmnrgZmlnIHUn

And yes, my father in law Frank was a mensch and will never be forgotten. 

Now Frank gets to be on the other side of his telescope. 

  1. Adored his soulmate Mary for 56 years 
  2. Loving & proud Dad of Elizabeth & Deborah and grandfather of Andre & Caroline 
  3. Owned two of every tool 
  4. Quoter of golden age movie lines 
  5. Loving and supportive of his son in law Sergio and daughter in law Liz #2
  6. Best friend of fur baby Lucy 
  7. Loving brother and son
  8. Natural caretaker 
  9. Welcoming presence 
  10. Could say a lot without words  
  11. Held longtime sincere friendships  
  12. Clever game player especially bridge 
  13. Inquisitive (didn’t accept status quo)
  14. BS detector  
  15. Lifelong hardworker  
  16. Wonderful carpenter (love our jewelry box)
  17. Infectious and unique laugh  
  18. Dry sense of humor (George Carlin fan/claimed that sometimes this daughter in law’s help at getting on fb can be like drinking from a firehose)
  19. Enjoyed meeting new people 
  20. Epic expressions & eyebrow reactions 
  21. Big brain; many existential thoughts 
  22. Trusted neighbor 
  23. Human musical jukebox 
  24. Funny phrases like “Apple Pie without the cheese is like a kiss without a squeeze”. 
  25. Enjoyer of his reclining chair, workshop, and man cave 
  26. Great astronomy knowledge 
  27. Mechanical brain (he explained things to us up to end)
  28. Excellent detector of delicious greasy spoon restaurants 
  29. Admirable eclectic musical tastes
  30. Competent hiking skills 
  31. Helpful cautionary advice (the farther you go down the the canyon, the harder and warmer it is to climb out)
  32. Adept at physical comedy 
  33. Loyal and steadfast 
  34. Affectionate (told Mary to give him a kiss one of the last times I saw him)
  35. Nuanced in conversation 
  36. Animated when driving 
  37. Solid Tshirt & Hawaiian shirt collection 
  38.  Interesting background & stories (in Dec 25 he told us about how he went to high school with Alice Cooper and kicked him out of the drive in when he was working there for being rowdy) 
  39. Ease of connection with others 
  40. Appreciation for corn/flour tortilla chips at Aunt Chiladas 
  41. Fun use of colorful vocabulary (always a well placed jack “donkey” retort)
  42. Insightful and level headed about world events
  43. Helpful to others in peril (we made the best of it when we were stranded together in NJ without power during hurricane sandy) 
  44. Humble persona
  45. Perceptive to challenges 
  46. Tactful to others 
  47. Industrious homeowner 
  48. Delightfully corny at times (cue donkey laugh)
  49. Knower of much information (shell answer man level)
  50. Scientifically driven 
  51. Empathetic to the downtrodden 
  52. Diplomatic in difficult situations 
  53. Ethical, discerning, and noble 
  54. Didn’t accept cruelty 
  55. Sensitive by nature 
  56. Deeply knowledgeable about his engineering vocation 
  57. Supportive of his children’s aspirations 
  58. Astute at reading the room 
  59. Capable handyman 
  60. Careful
  61. Considerate of intruding on others (when we were too loud with the niece and nephew “you know we have neighbors”)
  62. LGBTQ Ally 
  63. Endearing smile 
  64. Physically fit 
  65. Not a complainer  
  66. Active in life 
  67. Loved dearly by many 
  68. Gentle spirit 
  69. Reliable listening ear 
  70. Phoenix sports fan
  71. Fought for the greater good 
  72. Non judgmental 
  73. Well read 
  74. Detail orientated 
  75. Spirituality thoughtful 
  76. Fighter to the end 
  77. Not a victim 
  78. Shed his mortal coil on his terms (was ready to go/saw hummingbirds in his room the day before he passed) 
  79. Life success story  ————————————————-Eliz & I were so grateful to spend Christmas 2025 with her family. My dear father in law Frank Honer had been heroically living with pulmonary fibrosis for a decade. We spent precious time with him and family over break. Eliz was able to visit him this week. She told him what a great Dad he was and how lucky she was to be his daughter to which he lovingly reacted in his end of life state. We believe he waited for her as he died peacefully later Monday evening. I feel so lucky to be Frank’s daughter in law. He always made me feel like family. I played his favorite Beatles’ songs over the holidays. He brighened up and mouthed the lyrics. I never knew if I’d get to be married but boy did I win the lottery with the Elizabeth Honer family.

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